by Stacy | Apr 22, 2021 | blog, Emotional Trauma, Emotions, Growth, Healing Trauma, Inner Work, Self Awareness
I’ve been through trauma. I’ve suffered loss. I can’t do what other people can do. I can’t have what I really want. I’m stuck in this relationship. I’m stuck in these circumstances. I have mental limitations. I have physical limitations. These are things I hear in...
by Stacy | Apr 16, 2021 | blog, Boundaries, Connection, Emotional Trauma, Growth, Healing Trauma, Healthy Relationships, Inner Work
Do you even like that person who just broke up with you? Honestly? Take away all the history and memories and pretend they just walked into your life, fresh in this moment. Do you like who they are? Forget all the potential you saw in them or the relationship and...
by Stacy | Mar 25, 2021 | blog, Connection, Emotions, Growth, Healthy Communication, Inner Work, Self Care, Self-Worth
Closure: a comforting or satisfying sense of finality That’s straight from the dictionary. Have you ever had someone break up with you and it feel comforting and satisfying? Yeah, me neither. If we’re honest with ourselves, we really want these three things when we...
by Stacy | Mar 12, 2021 | blog, Connection, Growth, Healthy Communication, Healthy Relationships, Inner Work
Relationships aren’t steady things. They’re fluid and moving. They have to be, because people are always changing (in good or not-so-good ways). That should be expected, not surprising. It feels awesome when we’re bounding forward, experiencing new things together,...
by Stacy | Feb 19, 2021 | blog, Boundaries, Connection, Emotional Trauma, Healthy Communication, Healthy Relationships, Inner Work
When you’re a control freak, you send a clear message to the people in your life. I don’t trust you. That’s not great for relationships. I grew up in a small house with a lot of people. If we forgot to grab the milk or miscounted the forks at dinner, it was never a...
