by Rebecca Schillinger | Feb 26, 2021 | blog, Connection, Growth, Healthy Communication, Healthy Relationships, Inner Work, Self Care
I’ve gone through my share of friendship break-ups and boy, have they been painful. I think it took me about three years to recover from one of them. I don’t want that suffering to be for nothing, so I always try to repurpose the pain as a lesson. What can I learn...
by Stacy | Feb 19, 2021 | blog, Boundaries, Connection, Emotional Trauma, Healthy Communication, Healthy Relationships, Inner Work
When you’re a control freak, you send a clear message to the people in your life. I don’t trust you. That’s not great for relationships. I grew up in a small house with a lot of people. If we forgot to grab the milk or miscounted the forks at dinner, it was never a...
by Stacy | Feb 3, 2021 | blog, Connection, Emotions, Growth, Healthy Relationships, Inner Work, Self Care
I don’t love you anymore. Ever hear that one before? It sucks, but at least it’s honest. It’s better than wasting a whole bunch of time piecing it together because the other person never has the balls to say it. How about this one: I think I’m falling in love with...
by Stacy | Feb 3, 2021 | blog, Boundaries, Emotional Trauma, Healing Trauma, Healthy Communication, Inner Work
Recovering from betrayal in your relationship is a lot like recovering from a physical trauma. It’s shocking at first. It’s painful. It’s sloooooowww, and you’ll never be quite the same. As a relationship coach, I’ve heard different versions of the story but events...